If  someone wants you, nothing can keep them away. 
If they doesn't want you, nothing can make them stay. 
Stop making excuses for them and their behavior. 
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. 
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. 
Slower is better. 

Never live your life for a them before you find what makes you truly happy. 
If a relationship ends because  they wasnt treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. 

Don't settle. If you feel like they are stringing you along, then they probably are. 
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. 

The only person you can control in a relationship is youself. 


Always have your own set of friends separate from from your parter's. 

If something bothers you, speak up. 
Never let them know everything. they will use it against you later. 
You cannot change  their behavior. Change comes from within. 
Don't EVER make them feel that they are more important than you are...even if they have higher education or in a better job. 

They are human, like you, nothing more nothing less. 
Never let them define who you are. 
Never borrow someone else's lover.. 
Oh Lord!? If they cheated with you, then they will cheat on you. 
They will only treat you the way you ALLOW them to treat you. 

All men are NOT dogs and All women are NOT bitches so dont judge. 
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. 
You need time to heal between relationships.............there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. 

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. 
Dating is fun...even if they doesn't turn out to be Mr. or Mrs. Right. 
Make them miss you sometimes...when they always know where you are, and your always readily available to them, they take it for granted. 

Don't fully commit to someone who doesn't give you everything that you need. 
Keep them in your radar but get to know others.