They tell me that when you have lost someone in death that it is hard ... isn't that the truth!!!
But they also say "it gets easier with time." Really??? Does it??? Who says that? The people who say that, have they ever really lost someone or two suddenly??? And if they have, and it is now easier, please tell me, how? When?
I need to know.
How long I will feel this pain?
How long will tears suddenly cloud my eyes?
How long will the memories be haunting?
How long will I feel like something is missing?
When will I heal?
When will the tears be only joy?
When will the memories be only sweet?
When will the empty spaces be filled?
Lord, I am not trying to be ungrateful or anything of that nature. I am very blessed and grateful to have known them for as long as I have and as well as I did. Thank you Lord for blessing me with their presence.
The truth is if it does get easier and time heals all wounds, then it takes just that TIME and the time is immeasurable. Just as we all grieve differently, so shall we all heal from grief differently.